• PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca
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    2 days ago

    Even now, you’re trying to derail the conversation, which is about how women have to deal with this bullshit all the time online, and make it about a topic you care about.

    You don’t need to participate, if this isn’t the subject that you want to talk about.

    • chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      2 days ago

      which is about how women have to deal with this bullshit all the time online

      The point has been made. If you have more to say about it, go ahead.

      You don’t need to participate, if this isn’t the subject that you want to talk about.

      The unspoken thing I guess being that I shouldn’t participate if that isn’t something I have anything to say about. It sounds like something you want is for discussions that can be considered to be about women’s issues to be narrowly framed as such, and think there’s something wrong with engaging with the discussion in a way that doesn’t do this. I think this is much less reasonable than anything the comic itself is saying. There is a big difference between talking about the same issue but in a broader way, and remarking something overtly irrelevant and hostile like “what about circumcision”. That isn’t to say that spaces exclusively for narrowly framed discussion about women’s issues shouldn’t exist, but I don’t see a reason this comment thread has to be one, or why not considering it to be one should be regarded as offensive.