• Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    10 months ago

    Lawl I’ve never NOT been invited to a party because I don’t have accounts on social media. What kinda of friends exclude you from “day to day activities” (I can’t NOT read that in the voice of Hank Hill) if you’re not on fucking Instagram?

    Reminders about BILLS?! The fuck are you on?!

    What an insane comment.

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      10 months ago

      My roommates and I had a groupchat that was used explicitly for all of those things.

      Planning on the group chat was about the only talking about activities we’d do. If something was missed in the group chat, that was on the person who missed it.

      We paid shared bills. That’s where we did all of the breakup of responsibilities and money requirements.

      Being left out of group chats will absolutely have you left out of day to day activities since they now have to go out of their way to invite only you, since everyone else already has the info.

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        10 months ago

        If now that youve left the groupchat your roommates just forget to invite you, even if that what they’re used to, that says A LOT about your friends. I disagree that sending you a message is “out of their way”, it takes an infintismally amount of effort to message someone a time and place. Also, messaging you just is not out of their way, its right in their path if anything. (Assuming they have any desire to see you)