Ambii [she/her, they/them]

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Cake day: July 23rd, 2024

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  • My overwatch 14 day suspension is up in 4 days and I finally got a response to my “what did i even say” ticket

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    A Game Master resolved your ticket, and left the following response:

    Greetings.

    The penalty notification email includes all information that will be shared. Customer support cannot provide additional details of any kind.


    okay cool thanks very cool super cool

    Guess I can’t say frick anymore trans-sad

    I’ll just continue to get called a pedo for picking sombra and praying the mods ever actually do anything ig shrug-outta-hecks






  • I got suspended from ow2 for being toxic trans-sad

    I don’t say any slurs so it was probably saying fuck too many times in a pointed manner. (I probably deserved it, i ain’t gonna lie)

    Though part of me thinks I was already being mass reported because i’ve been playing a lot of sombra this season and also i rock the trans name card.

    Guess i’ll see if support deigns to tell me what no-no words I said this time (last time they threatened to ban me if I kept asking) (I never found out what I said)








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    “Doll” feels so so so bad, it’s by far the most infantilizing term for transfems.

    Personally I’m realizing I don’t really vibe with ‘girl’ (for similar reasons to ‘doll’, it’s infantilizing) as in ‘i am a girl’, but when used in a similar way to ‘dude’, i’m completely fine with it.

    ‘Sis’ being used in a similar way to ‘dude’ is kinda rad tho.

    “Queen” on the other hand is pure bad feels for me because of how heavily i associate it with the cis gay drag scene. Yeah I know it was used by cis women before drag got as popular as it is now, but I personally associate it cis gay culture too much to be comfortable with it.



  • How do I even answer a question like this

    These questions don’t need to be answered truth be told. Sometimes we just feel things and we feel that those things are just right. But I think your response really depends on you and how you feel about yourself and the path you see in front of you.

    For example if someone I came out to asked me “Are you sure?”, if I was feeling especially confrontational that day I’d turn it around on them and ask them how are they sure they’re not trans. Or if I knew the person a bit more personally and was okay with talking about my deeper feelings, I’d talk to them about how horrible I felt before coming to an understanding of who I am.


  • Don’t say “I think i might be…” or “I’ve been thinking”, nothing that will sound like an opening to dismiss or argue your feelings.

    “I am” or “I’ve known for [time frame]” work best because they cement your feelings as a fact.

    Expect questions that might feel overly invasive or personal that you may not want to or be ready to share like “Why do you feel this way?”, “Are you sure?”, “What made you feel this way?”, “Are you going to do x, y or z?”

    Coming out is the hardest step, I promise you things get much easier to talk about once it’s out in the open.

    You got this! cat-trans meow-hug