They are constraining themselves to a gender though, they’re stuck in the idea that they have to be a man because they were born male. That’s not true though, people can be a woman regardless of what they were born as. They say they’re happy now but they would be so much happier if they stopped limiting themselves and realized they can live comfortably as a woman.

Then just ignore it and move on.

Oh look, another transphobe 🙄

It is not invalidating their identity it is helping discover who they really are, helping them come out of the egg and break the denial that prevents them from being their most legitimate selves.

Don’t compare cracking someone’s egg to conversion therapy, they are not the same, cracking people’s eggs saves lives, it frees them from denial and allows them to be happy as their authentic self. Conversion therapy tries to force people deeper into denial. This is such a rotten and transphobic argument.

No I said we aren’t femboys, we are women. If someone claims to be a boy and dresses fem it’s clear they aren’t entirely cis, if they were such act would give them unbelievable gender dysphoria and discomfort.

This person is clearly in-denial, I’m not saying they should or shouldn’t be anything, it’s just obvious they aren’t entirely cis if you catch my drift.

Lemmy.world sure is full of transphobes and pickmes 🤮, it’s just like Reddit.

I never understood how people get so stuck in-denial, I mean ask yourself, is there really something so wrong with being a girl. Really what is so bad abut that to you that you’ll intentionally and repeatedly deny who you are to yourself? I wish you luck sis and I hope you can come out to yourself and be happy one day.

I think the person who made this list did not grow up as a girl.

Are you trying to argue that us trans women aren’t real women you disgusting pig?

That’s different, what you are describing is blatant transphobia. I’m trying to help her realize her trans identity, not deny it.

it could lead to serious depression, which could lead to suicide.

Those things also result from Gender Dysphoria, which can be made worse from not passing due to late transition.

Do you like them? If so might want to re-evaluate that first part.

But if she stays in denial too long it could be hard for her to pass in the future and she’d have more dysphoria from that that she wouldn’t have if she’d stop being stupid and accept that she’s trans whether she likes it or not.

Are you sure you’re cis UwU

She’s still definitely trans, no AMAB who wants boobs is really cis ya know.

She said she wants boobs tho, how many cis boys can you think of want boobs?

People can be transgender in-denial. That means they are trans and don’t know it yet. I’m almost 100% certain she is trans, even though she denies it. It sucks because it’ll be harder for her to pass if she doesn’t transition in the near future, that’s why it’s important to break the egg sooner than later.

You think boys talk about wanting to have boobs or practice making their voice girly? Come on, it’s so obvious she’s a girl.

Wow, rude. I just want to help my trans friend who is seriously in-denial of her trans identity. Denial is a serious problem you know.