Yeah so I am already in a blue state that has good trans protections. I’m just honestly wondering how far they’ll take it with the federal government. I just so happen to a work for an international company and could just do an internal transfer
Soooo how fucked are we? I am legitimately worried about losing my healthcare. Should I be looking to leave the country?
Idk it’s a difficult thing to accept. I’m just holding out hope I’ll get there. I think also managing expectations is good. Like I don’t expect to pass as cis, my own goal is to just pass as a woman and be treated as a woman and not constantly misgendered. I think it’s an ok goal and the bar is way lower for that
Ah I gotcha ok
If you’re in the US I did find that the dresses on stitch fix have been fitting me really well. I mean.its different for everyone but friends also report the same thing. I have recs
I don’t think I ever even come off as queer masc to people. Like I’m not super masc and if I literally changed how my voice sounded, no one would question how I talk I don’t think, but with my voice it’s just like … idk I can be in a dress and full makeup and I get he him’d. I figure it has to be my voice at this point
I actually scheduled a consult with a voice coach. It’s been like, idk a year now and I have made no progress with my voice so hoping that a voice coach can help me. Only problem is that I’m not out at work so I will not be able to go full time with my voice :(
Wow I’m actially impressed that even at my older age my parents are able to make me so insecure about my body -.-
Lol it will be ok. I just like picked them up from the airport last night and wore a dress and makeup and stuff and spent all this time getting ready and they just like, idk are being weird and misgendering me. I’m just like ok, maybe I went too far with the dress? It was at my friends recommendation but maybe they just need time
Wweeeeee my parents are visiting weeee I’m getting misgendered constantly weeee they are making weird comments about my body
Cursed with my voice 💀
I should try that
Idk my friends have not said that it does but could be an uncommon side effect. Or maybe just adjustment period
That’s true. Yeah I’ll give it a few weeks to calm down. I wish it helped with my sleep though Im up every two hours at night
Also I’ve been waking up with erections which what the fuck
CW descriptions of a nightmare
This was like a really scary dream I had these little bugs that would drill into my skin. Then I had to cut off alll my hair to cleanse myself or something. Then I had holes in my arms and ants were crawling out of them and crawling in. I woke up and like had to slow my breathing. Ive been getting nightmares like this or vivid strange dreams every night since starting prog rectally
Isn’t full leg laser like stupid expensive?
Yeah. I just don’t know when to pull the trigger and I don’t want to be too late either. But I also don’t wanna leave home. Idk. I don’t want to lose my healthcare or worse, be put in some camp or men’s prison or something