Fentanyl is used in hospitals as a pain killer… I’ve never heard of it being used for the stuff you listed. Are you thinking of ketamine?

As a person that was left with the mortgage after a break up, I wouldn’t worry too much. It was scary having to take on the financial responsibility of two people by myself, but I’ve made it work so far and I’ve had ample opportunity to get out of it if I so desired.

What’s worse is thinking about still being in a relationship where we both were unhappy no matter how much therapy or more intertwined we got with each other. In the period that things were ending, thinking about the finances was scary (It really was eye opining to realize that the thing I was afraid of was financial and not loosing the other person.). In hindsight, still being in that relationship seems much worse.

Guess the junior dev they had building their systems hadn’t figured out regex yet lol

I did first@last.me and can confirm, it confuses people all too often.