ValorieAF [she/her]

What the fuck lol

All aboard on the ghost ship of cannibal rats

We had our wedding at our house in the backyard, no DJ, a discounted cake from my wife’s work (a bakery), catering from a BBQ place. Still ended up costing just about 2k, after food, flowers, and rented tables and chairs.

On the flip side, I once had a super vivid dream that my wife started ghosting me, and left me for someone else. Years passed and I was still alone, lost interest in all of my hobbies, had to get rid of our pets, and I caught up with her randomly and she looked like she was much happier and better off, and I was so upset in the dream that I considered suicide. Woke up and was relieved that it was just a dream, but frustrated with my brain for putting me through all of that.

Hello my baby hello my darling

Hope not. I’ll definitely be doing my part.

Cast it into the fire!

There’s a mod soul in it

No, let’s leave the lazy ai political memes to the Republicans

Now we just need Butt goat

Hell yeah I want a VIM mug

Fucking bullshit. Citizen uses the 2A for its rightful purpose and gets charged anyways.

And then there’s us that pretended to be a girl in MMOs not for handouts, but because it turns out we’re trans

Blessed mod

Because money

…Yes, people should be able to call themselves what they like, but using a derogatory word to describe a group of other people is a no-go, sorry. It’s like, using a derogatory word to describe a group of people from a certain race is obviously wrong, right? This is no different. And if a significant percentage of people from that group definitely consider a term derogatory, then maybe you shouldn’t use it.

As I said before, “trap” and “removed” are both terms used almost explicitly in pornography. You should NOT refer to a transgender person or group of transgender people using either of those terms, unless A) those people are all okay with that term being used to describe them and B) it is in a pornographic context. But even better not to use those terms at all - trap is literally saying “you’ve been trapped / tricked by a girl with a dick” and removed is short for transexual which is an outdated and now derogatory term.

Yes, trans communities exist outside of r/MtF, but that subreddit is a general non-pornographic forum used by many trans women, and the opinions of the people there give a pretty good consensus of how trans people online feel about certain topics (including this one, which I’ve seen multiple posts of).

Not as far as I’m aware. A lot of people don’t care for sure but the general consensus in the trans communities I participate in (mostly r/MtF on reddit) agrees it’s a slur and find it offensive.

“Trap” is almost strictly a porn term / tag. Not every trans woman wants to be referred to by that, nor do they want to be sexualized.

“I know I’m offending a group of people but I don’t care”

Again that’s cool, but is it right to call people you don’t know sluts? I’m not sure what your point is.

That’s cool but you don’t go and call girls you don’t know sluts, and in the same vein, you don’t call trans women you don’t know traps or removed.