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  • absGeekNZ@lemmy.nztoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comoof
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    23 days ago

    I have come through this, you sound like you are in a similar position to me.

    One thing that helped for me was, imagine yourself 5 or even 10 years in the past, looking at a person in your position. What would that version of you think of the current you? If it is something like “when I have what that guy has, then I’ll be happy”, examine why your level for “happiness” has changed over that time.

    Also stoic philosophy is great, the wisdom of 2500 years helps.


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    23 days ago

    That word “supposed”, you are not “supposed” to feel anything…you feel what you feel, accept that. Rather than valuing getting tasks completed, try to change your value to something like “I’m a dependable person”, I am the type of person who you can depend on to help get that project across the line, but sometimes higher priority things will come up.



  • absGeekNZ@lemmy.nztoScience Memes@mander.xyzImplications
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    1 month ago

    There is also the harry potter version, any time travel is woven into the only timeline. The past is “edited” to always have included the events time travel.

    This can be considered similar to the branching method; where the original branch without the events of the time travel simply ends; only the “new” branch continues.


  • The type of person that wants someone that can’t think for them selves…isn’t really that high on the mental flag pole of life.

    But the saying is code for a bunch of stuff, I really doubt that they mean they are searching for someone with severe brain damage and has trouble performing even the basic functions of life.




  • Some years ago, I was walking with my GF through the supermarket, we were looking at the sweets section, right at the end of the isle, when I let a very stinky fart go. I learned over and said we should go.

    We walked to long way so we didn’t have to walk through the cloud, 30-40s later, just after we had rounded the far end of the isle we heard:

    Female voice: “oh my god, was that you! That is discussing” (loudly) Male voice: “no, it wasn’t me”
    Female voice: “why are you lying to me, you are always lying to me!” (Angrily)
    Male voice: “but it wasn’t me” (also angry)

    I think I may have put the final nail in the coffin of a bad relationship with a fart

    My partner and I still laugh about it 16 years later.



  • Quantum theory is only “controversial” to the general public, mainly because we haven’t found a way to explain in simple terms things like superposition, entanglement, quantum tunneling. Quantum theory is spectacularly successful, though incomplete.

    Even the “simple” stuff like the uncertainty principle takes a detailed understanding to properly grasp why there are pairs of properties that are inherently linked, and that information about one dictates how much you can know about the other. e.g. position/momentum and energy/time.