buh [she/her]

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Cake day: July 25th, 2020

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  • yeah, for me the gap between “I might be trans?” to “I guess I’m trans ¯\_(ツ)_/¯” was only a couple months. but for a year prior to that the way I thought of it was like “I kind of like thinking of myself as a woman, but I’m not really interested in actually transitioning”, and in the ~12 years before that were when I had those random moments of feeling feminine (and felt dysphoria when there was pressure to be masculine) but didn’t know how to process it.

    I hate how it’s all complicated by the stigma around questioning yourself to begin with. I feel like even if I never ever learned that transgenderism was a thing, even if it somehow didn’t exist in society, I could have figured it out sooner if there wasn’t strong social pressure to conform to AGAB.