bumpusoot [none/use name]@hexbear.nettotraaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•Non-cis people of hexbear, what does being your gender mean to you?English
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2 months agoI personally present as cis because it’s easy, but the reality is that I really don’t care about gender as a concept. To the point that I don’t even really like being called “agender”. In spite of lengthy heartfelt conversations with two trans partners in my time, I still really struggle to understand the mindset of feeling gender is important to one’s identity; Not understanding it actually feels quite isolating, sometimes. I frequently feel like I’m the only person who doesn’t “get it”.
None of which is to say I do not love and support my trans comrades to the ends of the fucking Earth . Transphobes can line up against the wall.
Agreed - I’m quite surprised by the responses here, it is neat. Thanks for the open-ended thread <3