my experience so far;

basedcount seems like a viable option but I asked them to defederate the loli federations etc and its not done (yet). Not sure if they didnt find time or if its bugged but important for me that the admin stays on top of their server for when the ddos kiddies come by.

If we wont manage to find a server im willing to host a small, completely defederated server without image uploads. Should be doable to keep costs under a couple dollars a month. I know donkey has hosting knowledge.

We can use image uploaders like Ye Olden Reddit and freeload on the app developers making apps for lemmy.

1. Yes. I prefer the Lemmy/Reddit layout.

2. I actually dont see any critical flaws with Lemmy.

By defederating from the illegal servers and with some team effort its easy to cut down on spam.

While I agree with Kapow on the sentiment that taking the server down highlights the problem with a centralized server it kinda sucks that once the federation got traction it gets shut down lol.

Cant undelete the time spend growing the server and taking the time to upload memes, articles etc.

Edit: And as european citizen im indirectly funding the Lemmy devs with my tax dollars so I like to use what im paying for 😎

do I need to login first or something?

Call spez gay and hang up.

It is. The part of knowing that every mistake is your own allows for more self improvement as well.

Self employed

best part: no boss

worst part: Im the boss, so the only one fucking with the boss when im slacking is me.

as man almost hitting my thirties with a wife and no kids, I spend it sparsely as work goes first. I want to get kids when im in my early thirties. I think a proper upbringing needs $$

Turn off the contactlist auto add crap in settings, and check friend privacy, if you add someone as friend it will default to showing your phone number. Turn that off lol.

Madonna the old hag, all these “rapper” women that are plain thots, and a whole bunch of actresses from hollywood.

Easy, intelligence. Not as in, has to know everything etc just being able to hold a conversation and a discussion with proper arguments. I want to be wrong sometimes ya know?

That one time my neighbour gave us snacks for the family (idk had to do with new years eve and their culture or whatever).

gf didnt trust it so she wanted to throw it away, I tried one. It wasnt a bad snack. My gripe is that our walls are very thin thus you can hear everything even when a faucet gets turned on.

I later realized they dont wash their hands after taking a shit. I hear a flush and never hear the faucet turn on except when they have a visitor. I ate snacks made with doodoo hands 😭

Japanese media doesnt report on issues like these. They are in the “closing my eyes and look away” phase many european countries went thro.

Google. I have zero issues using an American company. I cant battle every fight. I prefer keeping the china apps from my phone.

Poor people dont have manners lol. I realized the same. Started noticing my gripe is with poor people. The attitude, the zero fucks given, the way most cant communicate beyond yelling. You ever want to correct someone on bad behavior in public and you just go “eh might not be the smartest thing to do here”. I never had that thought with other well off people. I used to hate a lot of people until I started my own company and came into contact with other people who were driven for success.

Some people call it education issues etc but I honestly believe a lot of poor folks are actually regarded. Ive been poor and Ive seen what the people around me were doing. The worst part for me is the littering and the noise they make with speakers to get desperate attention.

And as such I never take public transport. 😎 Ofc this doesn’t go for all poor people, I have respect for the ones that try to make it out of the situation, even if they dont succeed.

Its getting pretty obvious aint it. Most normies dont even own a pc unless they have to for a job. Its 100% a coordinated effort to get pc users in the adware ridden ecosystem.

Its good to have confirmation. Thanks Wiggle 💪

I like to see exploding heads stay separate from servers that try to commercialize the space, or force defederations by association. The goalposts of what is acceptable will always move.

I really dig the vibe here and I would like to see it continue as that.

When I made an account I was fully aware that I would make an account on a federation that is defederated. I am ok with that.

As long as this place doesnt turn into voat, which I trust the admins to take care of.