themachine@lemmy.fmhy.mltoRelationship Advice@lemmy.world•How should I surprise my partner sexually?English
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1 year agoA hotel room and some activities not involving sex. Maybe it’s a show or going to a garden or a museum. Make it a total romantic evening and set the stage. Then as others have suggested maybe you give a gift of a sexual nature like some sexy clothes or a toy. That way it won’t be a surprise act but something they can choose to use if desired. Make sure it’s all no pressure and good natured fun.
There really should be an option to dim it low.