Obviously I can understand why mysoginists are hated upon, As their belief is all women are trash or men are superior etc. But why are incels also generally hated upon? They are lacking in a way that makes them unable to gey in a relationship, but that shouldn’t necessarily mean they are mysoginists, right?

What am I missing here? I haven’t ever had a relationship with a woman, but I don’t hate all women either. I just consider myself unlucky. Does that make me an incel?

  • june@lemmy.worldEnglish
    11·
    4 months ago

    The vast majority of Muslims in the west, like Christians, are ideologically against folks that are LGBTQ, but they aren’t out there assaulting 81% of LGBTQ people. This, like the other commenter is saying, is a false equivalence and not relevant.

    • beardown@lemm.ee
      2·
      4 months ago

      You think that your hypothetical men who are so evil are somehow not Muslim or black? Why?

      • june@lemmy.worldEnglish
        11·
        4 months ago

        You’re the only one here insinuating that Muslims and black people are evil.

        • beardown@lemm.ee
          1·
          4 months ago

          You’re saying that you hate men, but you don’t hate men who are black are Muslim? Why is that?

          • june@lemmy.worldEnglish
            1·
            4 months ago

            Never once said I hate men. Cause I don’t. In fact I quite like men. But even though I’m not a woman, I’m wary of strange men that I don’t know.

            Why are you making things up and being unapologetically obtuse?

            • beardown@lemm.ee
              2·
              4 months ago

              Being wary of strange people is one thing. Being wary of strange people who only have (insert immutable trait) is bigotry and is always wrong.

              This is kindergarten level shit

              • june@lemmy.worldEnglish
                11·
                4 months ago

                Again, the definition of bigotry is ‘obstinate or unreasonable’ belief. Empirical data, and the experiences of women everyday, makes the caution reasonable. It is not bigotry for women to be cautious around men, especially strange men but even with men that women know (80% of rapes are perpetuated by someone the victim knows). Trust is earned and the default should always be caution, especially when the person you’re dealing with holds any sort of power over you (authority, physical strength, etc.).

                • beardown@lemm.ee
                  2·
                  4 months ago

                  Empirical data, and the experiences of Whites everyday, makes the caution reasonable. It is not bigotry for Whites to be cautious around Blacks, especially strange Blacks but even with Blacks that Whites know (80% of rapes are perpetuated by someone the victim knows). Trust is earned and the default should always be caution, especially when the person you’re dealing with holds any sort of power over you (physical strength, etc.).

                  Literally you rn