While I agree with the message of most of the posts in this community, I must admonish y’all for your gross misuse of a positive word. It’s good to be weird - a weirdo - as the alternative is being normal, and that’s something everybody should strive to avoid.

In fact, I’d argue that most of the people y’all call weirdos are actually normal. And that’s the problem - their shitty behavior is normalized. Co-opting “weird” to use as an insult to normal assholes only corrupts the word without adding anything of value.

It’s like how “literally” is now literally its own antonym. Nobody benefits from that new definition - all it does is cause confusion.

  • lady_maria@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    1 month ago

    Used to be that all that was necessary to understand one’s implication when using the word was situational and maybe cultural context.

    When do you feel this has changed?

    Because from what I can tell, it still is that way. Both meanings of “weird” that we’re discussing (and, surely, the rest of its meanings) ARE the result of cultural changes.

    Now, personal context is needed for both the speaker and the subject - you need to know the political/ethical proclivities of both the speaker and subject to know whether it’s meant as an insult or compliment.

    You understood what those people meant when they used “weird” negatively. Did you know the political/ethical proclivities of every single person? Did you have to comb through their post/comment histories for information to be able to translate what they said? Or, did you infer what they meant based on the context of the post and the culture of the community?

    Yes, non-native speakers will struggle more; this language is a particularly difficult one to learn, and envy no one who is trying to learn it as a 2nd/3rd/ect. language. English’s fluidity isn’t exactly something that is unique to it, though.

    What do you propose is the alternative? We can’t exactly stop cultural evolution… why would we want to, anyway?

    Really, the only difference now is that we have the internet, which just makes it change a lot more rapidly. It’s all still the result of culture, though.