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Idk i dont even have a play partner right now (trust is hard )
Feel this
i think that sentence made it make (more) sense ^^
I’m glad it did, hopefully my imagination isn’t misleading about it lol
I have a fantasy about uh nonconsentual stuff that is strictly act in because it would be unsafe and just not enjoyable if it was acted out. Im also just still grappling with that fantasy existing in my head, the shame around it, and all of that.
Oh yeah. I’ve definitely had thoughts like that before. Though personally I guess I didn’t think of it as a fantasy but more of an unwanted intrusive thought. Maybe it’s the same thing in this case.
The example makes sense. I can see how things that are desirable in the moment can be regrettable later.
My body is not stable and can get fucked up in a “oh we should go to the hospital” kind of a way a bit easier than most people, so i can get real paranoid about people binding near my joints, or whipping me near cartilidge or connective tissues.
Oh wow that’s rough. Sorry if this is prying but is that some sort of HSD? My partner has EDS and their body has similar problems with joint and connective tissues
Like, how was the parafin? I have a pretty high tolerance for burning, especially if its combined with other sensation, but i was thinking to start with soy cause of anxiety around biting off more than I can chew.
Paraffin didn’t really bother me (pre-HRT so thicker skin) but if it is too hot, it’s also possible to alter the temperature of the wax just by adjusting the drip height. I didn’t have a problem from even close up though. I’ve never used soy so I can’t comment on how that feels but I’ve read that it’s oily? Paraffin clean up is a pain already, I can’t imagine the mess from soy candles.
Also, can you just use any candle?
Nope! Don’t use beeswax, it gets too hot and it can burn or blister.
Good night and good luck